My elopement planning journey was a bit of an unconventional rollercoaster. I meticulously laid out my plans almost a year ahead, only to have the pandemic sweep in just a month into the game, closing down national parks and dashing my original vision. 

Enter the pivot – I swiftly organized a courthouse elopement and a backpacking honeymoon in a mere month. Definitely not the recommended path, but life's full of surprises, and planning anything let alone your elopement at the last minute isn’t exactly advisable unless absolutely necessary.  

On the bright side, having an incredible photographer is like having a guardian angel. They can assist you in rescheduling the elopement or setting up an adventure session in that dream location you initially picked. Waiting wasn't my preference, yet I still craved those epic photos, prompting me to schedule an adventure session for a later date.

The moral of the story? Your elopement is a chameleon, adapting to whatever you need or want it to be. It navigates through any circumstance, so always have a plan B in your back pocket. Despite my whirlwind, most couples typically kick off their planning 4 to 12 months out.

And here's the golden nugget – a stellar elopement photographer can be your guiding star through all these plans. They've got the insider knowledge, the tricks of the trade, and they're basically like your personal travel guide armed with fancy cameras!
When you're locking in that oh-so-important date, think about the nitty-gritty details: weather, budget, season – all those crucial factors.

And here's a spicy tidbit for you – lean in for this hot tip – consider eloping on a weekday. Why? Because you don't want to find yourself in a showdown with tourists for that special spot of yours. Weekdays, my friend, are the unsung heroes of elopement serenity.

Step 4: Pin down your chosen day!

Oh, the thrill of eloping – this is the part that makes my heart sing. The entire globe is your playground, and the big question is, where will you choose to say those precious "I do's"?

Now, if the vastness of the world is giving you a bit of decision paralysis, fear not. An experienced photographer (cue yours truly, lol!) can be your human elopement encyclopedia. I've got the lowdown, the deets, and I'm ready to help you navigate the pros and cons of your potential elopement destinations.

But here's the deal – this is another realm where you could easily get lost in a rabbit hole. So, close those eyes once more and envision the backdrop you're dreaming of for your marriage vows. Are you by the ocean? Deep in an ice cave? Lost in the jungle? Lounging on a beach? Perched on a mountaintop? Or maybe basking in a wide-open field?

If the entire world is your canvas, where would you paint your elopement masterpiece? It's not just an elopement; it's a full-blown elope-cation. Are you vibing with the beaches of Bali? Craving the desert dunes of Morocco? Seeking the tranquility of Iceland? Or perhaps yearning for the mountains of Colorado or the cliffs of Yosemite? Ask yourself all the important questions.

And while you're at it, consider your favorite season. What activities make your heart race? Are you itching for a hike deep into the wilderness, or maybe you want to tick off a bucket list location? Heck, why not plan the whole shebang around your dream honeymoon?

Wherever you decide to plant your elopement flag, make that decision well in advance. That way, you can snag sweet deals on airfare and accommodations, ensuring your dream day doesn't just happen, but it happens in style.

Step 3: Pick your perfect spot to elope!

Who do you envision sharing the most pivotal and private day of your life?

Many couples opt for elopement precisely for that intimate vibe, and having just the two of you is fantastic!

Alternatively, perhaps you wish to exchange vows intimately and then kick off a celebration with friends and family.

Thinking of a more inclusive ceremony with a select few friends and family members? I'd suggest capping the guest list at around 25 people, but hey, it's your day, and you call the shots on who's present.

I can't emphasize this enough – IT'S YOUR DAY. No compromises! Craft that guest list based on your aspirations and dreams for your elopement.

Step 6: Create that guest list ( if there is one! )

Secure your elopement photographer first – seriously, they're the key player. Your elopement photographer is more than just someone with a camera; they're your guide to vendors, travel tips, and all things wedding planning. If you choose me, you get help finding those top-notch vendors who are passionate, skilled, and experienced in elopements.

Now, let's talk details. Are you going for professional hair and makeup or doing it yourself? When it comes to flowers, are you getting them locally or from a distance? And those arrangements – DIY or leaving it to the pros?

Here's the simple hack: lock in those vendors early, and watch the rest of your plans effortlessly fall into place. Your elopement is like a puzzle, and having your dream team from the start ensures everything fits together perfectly.

Step 5:  Select your vendors

In the grand tapestry of elopement details, this might be one of the smallest threads, but oh, it's also one of the most significant – what to wear?

Consider your chosen backdrop (heels and a mountain trail might not be the best mix), the unpredictable weather, the season's character, and, of course, the narrative your photos will tell.

Timing is crucial too. Some bridal shops demand 6-12 months for custom fittings and designs, but fear not, there are beautiful dresses available online from places like BHLDN. 

For those airborne journeys, think about fabrics that defy wrinkles, or plan on bringing a hand steamer along (and if you ask politely, a flight attendant might even lend a hand with hanging your clothes). 

Now, let your adventure guide your wardrobe decisions. Are hiking boots a necessity? Layers for the cold, or a strategic unlayering for the heat?

Remember, the right ensemble can either elevate or deflate the day. Choose your attire thoughtfully. 

Step 7: Now let's talk wardrobe!

Alright, all the groundwork is laid! Now, let’s make things official and jump into buying those tickets and locking in those hotels.

Before you unleash a spending spree, consider arming yourself with a credit card that showers you with bonus points. Since you're going all out, why not snag a little something in return? Do a bit of homework or ring up your bank – with a plethora of credit cards out there, find the one that aligns with your needs best.

Hot tips:
-Opt for Expedia to bag more significant discounts and pile up those points.
-Tackle lodging first, then figure out the transportation game.
-Be ready for higher costs when traveling during peak seasons.
-Flip the script and enjoy lower prices during the off-season.
-Go for the sweet spot called the shoulder seasons – right between the high and low seasons.
-Bundle up your adventure activities (kayaking, horseback riding, boat tours, etc.) with your other bookings for some nifty savings.

Step 9: Time for travel

Passports?      Driver’s license?      Marriage license? .....

Before you embark on your elopement adventure, there's a checklist longer than a love letter, but don't let the nitty-gritty details dampen your dream day.

Now, couples often think a marriage license is the magic wand that makes a wedding official. It's fantastic to have it signed on your day, but here's the deal – it's not the be-all and end-all. Different states and countries have their own marriage laws. Research and plan accordingly. Some places throw in a waiting period between saying "I do" and handing you that license. My advice? Don't stress the paperwork; you get married when you say “I do,” the rest is just a sheet of paper.

Next up, logistics. Officiant or no officiant? Some places like Colorado allow self-solemnization.

Ensure your vital documents like birth certificates and passports are in the clear legally.

And the cherry on top – check if your chosen location demands a permit. Some places do, some don't. Your trusted wedding photographer, who's practically a logistics ninja, can guide you through all the fine details.

After saying “I DO” advice: For those considering the traditional name change, Hitchswitch is a fantastic tool that made the process a breeze for me. 

Step 8:  Logistics, Legalities, and Forms

Now comes the breeziest part of the entire adventure – elope and revel in an epic time like you're just two wild-hearted lovebirds!

All the groundwork and research you've poured in has paid off, and now it's time to savor the sweet fruits of your dedication and love.

And that, my friends, is the art of eloping...

So, venture forth and embrace the elopement journey!

Step 10: Have the most unforgettable elopement day ever!